Last updated Feb 20, 2025

The Right to Divorce – Lifting the Legal Limbo for Same Sex Couples

Written by Katelyn Swaney

legal limboWhether or not you are among those cheering last week’s Supreme Court decision recognizing Constitutional protection for same sex marriage, there is no denying that it has changed state of the law in the United States in a big way.

The Other Side of the Marriage Coin

While most of the attention from the ruling has been on the right to get married, there is, of course, another side to the coin that’s just as important, legally speaking. When you have the right to marry, you have the right to divorce. Last week’s decision was good news for many gay and lesbian couples in Nebraska and across the country – those looking to get married and those looking to get divorced.

Before last week’s decision, the patchwork of state laws on same sex marriage left Nebraska same sex couples who married in another state in legal limbo. They couldn’t get a divorce because Nebraska didn’t recognize their marriage in the first place. If you weren’t married in the eyes of the law, there was no marriage to dissolve with a divorce proceeding. You were stuck.

Pack your Bags and Settle in

Until last week, for Nebraska same sex couples to get a divorce, one spouse had to move to a state recognizing same sex marriage and establish residency before being allowed to file for divorce. Most states’ residency requirement is six months to one year.

For many, that sort of relocation flexibility isn’t possible, so they were stuck in a world of uncertainty regarding their rights and obligations – including the right to inherit, the right to sell property and the right to utilize income from that property.

Leaving Legal Limbo

Now, not only can same sex couples in Nebraska go to their county clerk’s office for a marriage license, they can go to the court clerk and file their divorce petition. For many this is going to be a huge relief.

The Supreme Court has held that a marriage is a marriage. That means the same laws that apply to opposite sex divorce in Nebraska now apply to same sex divorce. If a marriage is a marriage, a divorce is a divorce.

If you need help with a Nebraska divorce, the confident, clear, committed attorneys at Hightower Reff Law are here to help. Contact us online or call us at 402-932-9550.

Katelyn Swaney

About the Author

Katelyn Swaney

Katelyn is a meticulous and empathetic attorney who leaves no stone unturned when it comes to representing her clients. With a strong commitment to research and problem-solving, she works tirelessly to find the right answers and ensure her clients feel supported and informed throughout the legal process. Katelyn's thoughtful approach combines kindness and determination, making her a trusted advocate in even the most challenging cases.

Before joining the legal field, Katelyn spent 10 years in educational services, working with individuals impacted by developmental, emotional, and lifestyle challenges. This experience sharpened her ability to connect with people, understand their unique situations, and provide clear, actionable guidance. Katelyn takes pride in being "real" with her clients, breaking down complex legal concepts and making the process feel manageable and approachable.

Katelyn's time with the Child Support Enforcement Office gave her invaluable "insider" knowledge of how the system works. She leverages this experience to strategically navigate the legal process for her clients, ensuring they receive the best possible outcomes. Whether advocating for fair child support arrangements or tackling other family law matters, Katelyn's deep understanding of the system sets her apart.

An Omaha native, Katelyn earned her Bachelor of Science in Criminology from the University of Nebraska at Omaha and her Juris Doctor from Creighton University School of Law. During law school, she was honored with the Nebraska State Bar Association's Rise Award and the Pro Bono Distinction Award for her dedication to serving others.

Outside of the office, Katelyn is an active member of the Nebraska State Bar Association, Omaha Bar Association, and sits on the Legal Services Committee. She is passionate about french fries, all things Star Wars, and recreational sports.

Clients value Katelyn for her thoroughness, transparency, and relentless pursuit of the right solutions. With Katelyn on your side, you'll have a kind and determined advocate who will work tirelessly to help you achieve your goals.

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