Last updated Feb 20, 2025

Moving Away if There’s a Child Custody Order – What you Need to Know

Written by Katelyn Swaney

shutterstock_107478686-thumb-250x286-71316If you have custody of your child and want to move with your child any significant distance away from the other parent, you’ll have to get the court’s permission before you do. These kinds of cases are called “removal” or “relocation” cases.

There’s no guarantee the judge will allow your child to move with you. It takes an experienced attorney to navigate the sometimes murky waters of Nebraska law when it comes to proving to the Judge that moving your child away from the other parent is in his or her best interests.

The family law attorneys at Hightower Reff in Omaha, Nebraska have worked with removal cases for years, and, as with most things, we believe that knowing the process makes things less stressful for clients.

Getting Things Moving

To start your removal case, your lawyer will file a Complaint for Removal and other paperwork with the Clerk of the District Court.

Next your lawyer will have the other parent served with the Complaint or get their signature on a Voluntary Appearance. If the other parent has an attorney, your lawyer will work with their lawyer to get these things accomplished.

After that, the other parent has thirty days to file a written answer to the Complaint.

Speeding it up

Temporary orders allowing removal of the child aren’t allowed under Nebraska law, so instead the law provides for an expedited final hearing to resolve the case and get a final order in place.

Depending on the court’s schedule, your final hearing may happen as soon as two to three months after the other party files their Answer to your complaint. This may not sound fast – but in terms of court time, it is.

Because the final hearing happens so quickly, the trial preparation process – or discovery phase – goes relatively quickly as well.

During this time the lawyers will exchange written requests for information. They may have more hearings with the judge to decide what information both sides are entitled to have or to decide any other issues that come up.

There might be depositions where the attorneys ask questions of witnesses for the opposing sides. During a deposition, witness’ statements are taken under oath by a court reporter with lawyers from both sides and both parties present.

Ideally, you and the opposing party will be able to reach an agreement with the help of your lawyers or a mediator regarding the move and the terms of your new parenting plan for after the move. If not, you will have to have a trial so the judge can decide those issues.

Best Interestsย 

To prove to the judge at trial that you should be able to move away with your child you have to prove:

  • that you have a legitimate reason for the move
  • that the move is in the child’s best interests

While this sounds simple, there are a lot more variables that the court weighs in its decision. Things like:

  • the impact of the move on the child’s relationship with the other parent
  • the child’s improvement of opportunity and quality of life in the new location, and
  • the child’s living environment

…among other things.

These are all key indicators that help the court determine if the best interests of the child will be served by the move.

This article should not be construed as legal advice. Situations are different and it’s impossible to provide legal advice for every situation without knowing the individual facts.ย 

Katelyn Swaney

About the Author

Katelyn Swaney

Katelyn is a meticulous and empathetic attorney who leaves no stone unturned when it comes to representing her clients. With a strong commitment to research and problem-solving, she works tirelessly to find the right answers and ensure her clients feel supported and informed throughout the legal process. Katelyn's thoughtful approach combines kindness and determination, making her a trusted advocate in even the most challenging cases.

Before joining the legal field, Katelyn spent 10 years in educational services, working with individuals impacted by developmental, emotional, and lifestyle challenges. This experience sharpened her ability to connect with people, understand their unique situations, and provide clear, actionable guidance. Katelyn takes pride in being "real" with her clients, breaking down complex legal concepts and making the process feel manageable and approachable.

Katelyn's time with the Child Support Enforcement Office gave her invaluable "insider" knowledge of how the system works. She leverages this experience to strategically navigate the legal process for her clients, ensuring they receive the best possible outcomes. Whether advocating for fair child support arrangements or tackling other family law matters, Katelyn's deep understanding of the system sets her apart.

An Omaha native, Katelyn earned her Bachelor of Science in Criminology from the University of Nebraska at Omaha and her Juris Doctor from Creighton University School of Law. During law school, she was honored with the Nebraska State Bar Association's Rise Award and the Pro Bono Distinction Award for her dedication to serving others.

Outside of the office, Katelyn is an active member of the Nebraska State Bar Association, Omaha Bar Association, and sits on the Legal Services Committee. She is passionate about french fries, all things Star Wars, and recreational sports.

Clients value Katelyn for her thoroughness, transparency, and relentless pursuit of the right solutions. With Katelyn on your side, you'll have a kind and determined advocate who will work tirelessly to help you achieve your goals.

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