Can Criminal Charges Affect Your Divorce or Child Custody Case?

Written by McKenna Carnell

When people think about divorce and criminal law, they often view them as two completely separate legal issues. In reality, they can become closely connected.

If you or your spouse is facing criminal charges, those allegations may have an impact on decisions involving child custody, parenting time, property division, or even the overall timeline of your divorce. Every situation is unique, but understanding how these two areas of law intersect can help you make informed decisions from the beginning.

Criminal Charges Don’t Automatically Decide a Family Law Case

One of the biggest misconceptions I hear is that an arrest or criminal charge automatically means someone will lose custody of their children or receive an unfavorable outcome in divorce court.

That isn’t how Nebraska family courts operate.

Family courts focus on what is in the best interests of the child, not simply whether someone has been accused of a crime. An allegation, an arrest, and a conviction all carry different legal weight, and the court looks carefully at the facts of each individual case.

The key question is often whether the alleged conduct affects the safety, stability, or well-being of the children involved.

Certain Criminal Charges May Have a Greater Impact

While every case is different, some criminal offenses are more likely to become relevant during a divorce or child custody matter.

Examples may include:

  • Domestic violence allegations
  • Child abuse or neglect charges
  • Sexual offenses
  • Drug-related offenses
  • Driving under the influence (DUI), particularly when children were present
  • Assault or violent crimes
  • Repeated criminal activity that raises concerns about stability

These situations don’t automatically determine the outcome of a family law case, but they may influence how the court evaluates parenting responsibilities and decision-making.

Domestic Violence Can Affect More Than One Courtroom

When domestic violence allegations are involved, it is common for multiple legal proceedings to happen at the same time.

Someone may be dealing with:

  • A pending criminal case
  • A divorce proceeding
  • A child custody dispute
  • A protection order

Each of these matters has its own legal standards and procedures, but what happens in one case can sometimes affect another. Decisions made in a criminal matter, statements given to law enforcement, or testimony presented in court may later become relevant in family court.

This is one reason it’s important to have experienced legal guidance when multiple legal issues overlap.

Child Custody Is About Protecting Children

When custody decisions are made, Nebraska courts consider many factors that affect a child’s best interests.

Depending on the circumstances, the court may evaluate:

  • Each parent’s ability to provide a safe and stable home
  • The history of each parent’s involvement with the child
  • Evidence of domestic abuse or violence
  • Substance abuse concerns
  • Criminal convictions that affect parenting ability
  • The emotional and physical well-being of the child

The court’s goal is not to punish a parent. The goal is to create an arrangement that supports the child’s health, safety, and long-term development.

Be Careful What You Say

It’s understandable to want to explain your side of the story, especially when emotions are high.

However, if criminal charges are pending, statements made during your divorce, to law enforcement, on social media, or even in text messages could potentially affect your legal matters.

Before discussing important issues publicly or making decisions that could impact your case, it’s wise to understand the potential legal consequences.

Planning Ahead Can Make a Difference

Whether you’re the person facing criminal charges or your spouse has been charged with a crime, obtaining legal guidance early can help you understand how these issues may intersect.

Every case presents different facts, different evidence, and different concerns. The earlier you understand your options, the better prepared you’ll be to make informed decisions throughout the process.

You Don’t Have to Navigate Both Alone

Facing a divorce is stressful. Facing criminal allegations at the same time can make an already difficult situation feel overwhelming.

At Hightower Reff Law, we understand that life doesn’t always fit neatly into one area of the law. Our attorneys work with clients to help them understand how criminal charges may affect divorce, child custody, parenting time, and other family law matters, while developing a strategy tailored to their unique circumstances.

If you’re concerned about how criminal charges could impact your family law case, or if you’re preparing to file for divorce while criminal proceedings are pending, scheduling a consultation is the best place to start. We’ll answer your questions, explain what to expect, and help you move forward with confidence.

Last updated Jul 30, 2026
McKenna Carnell

About the Author

McKenna Carnell

McKenna is a compassionate attorney who brings a steady presence and a calm approach to every case. With a background in social work, she has a deep understanding of the challenges families face and excels at guiding clients through emotionally charged situations. McKenna’s ability to truly listen and connect with her clients ensures they feel supported and empowered throughout the legal process.

Before becoming an attorney, McKenna worked in child welfare, advocating for families and helping them achieve meaningful change. Now, as part of the Hightower Reff Law team, McKenna draws on her experience and works collaboratively with some of the best lawyers in the field. She focuses on cases that impact families, using her empathetic approach to tackle even the toughest situations with care and professionalism.

Outside of her legal work, McKenna is a dedicated plant enthusiast who finds joy in nurturing her greenery. She also enjoys walking her mom’s basset hounds, Murphy and Oakley, exploring old architecture, and practicing yoga to recharge and stay grounded.

Clients appreciate McKenna’s thoughtful nature, her ability to provide calm in difficult moments, and her commitment to ensuring they feel heard and supported. With McKenna, you’ll have a strong advocate backed by a team of exceptional attorneys, all working together to achieve the best outcomes for your case.

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